1. The material you talk about with the girl must be based off of your identity. You gotta learn how to present yourself as you are. That way you will never run out of material. And you will be authentic. And figuring out how to do this is way more important than learning and demonstrating “Value” so to speak. My take is that this will also get the girl talking about herself
2. A large part of the sensei’s game is talking about attraction. What attraction means to him. What is attractive to him. Conversely the girl herself will talk about attraction and soon will start feeling attraction. Words leading to feelings leading to action.
3. That sensei does not talk about career, which in his case is pick up instruction. But he does not hide from it or lie about it.
The lesson I take from this is that I am obsessed with being the Vitruvian man. So I must talk about self improvement or the quest for perfection. What perfection means to me. Male and Female.
4. Sensei believes that if you can figure out a way to show purpose, that is a huge attraction switch. Now, the mark of a man is to have purpose. But how does he display it in a way that is attractive?