1. The material you talk about with the girl must be based off of your identity. You gotta learn how to present yourself as you are. That way you will never run out of material. And you will be authentic. And figuring out how to do this is way more important than learning and demonstrating “Value” so to speak. My take is that this will also get the girl talking about herself.
2. A large part of the sensei’s game is talking about attraction. What attraction means to him. What is attractive to him. Conversely the girl herself will talk about attraction and soon will start feeling attraction. Words leading to feelings leading to action.
3. That sensei does not talk about career, which in his case is pick up instruction. But he does not hide from it or lie about it.
The lesson I take from this is that I am obsessed with being the Vitruvian man. So I must talk about self improvement or the quest for perfection. What perfection means to me. Male and Female.
4. Part of seduction is maintaining a sexual state. The basis of this is that if you are feeling sexual, it is all but guaranteed that the girl you are interacting with is feeling it too. If your dick is getting hard through the interaction, she will be getting wet too. So the challenge in seduction is maintaining a sexual state. You gotta cultivate it. If you spike it, she will feel the spike and get LMR and all that shit. When you get started interacting with her, as time goes by, you must make the conversation get slowly sexual bit by bit. Escalating with sexual questions, compliments, stories, anecdotes etc slowly on a slow boil. Your interactions with the girl must be such that you too get sexually excited with time bit by bit.
In singapore though the challenge is to open. All the girls are so fucking in a hurry that it is just about impossible to get even a godamn instadate. So whatever Sensei is talking about here, it has to be used to actually open and initiate
5. If I have finesse, I can use this as an opener. But if not, within 30 secs of interacting with her, I must ask her